Hi all. Here’s my first attempt at writing a blog. Will try to keep it short and sweet.

The last few years have brought immense changes to our lives. For those who aren’t aware of my condition, let me catch you up.

2018 started off with slight numbness in my fingers. In October, my birthday present was a diagnosis of ALS, a neurodegenerative disease. My arms and legs were both working well at the time. After a cruise to Australia and a trip to Goa in January 2019 for Aunty Ruby’s 90th birthday and a fabulous time at Dielle’s wedding, the year progressed – and so did my disease. By the end of 2019, my hands had atrophied completely. By mid 2020, my breathing worsened and I now use a BiPAP machine for most of the day. I was able to walk, and still am, though with a lot of assistance. Since late 2020, my legs have weakened and my balance is very shaky. Today, I need help to walk even ten steps… and a wheelchair for the rest.

But despite all this, my mind is healthy and my sense of humor is intact. With relatives and friends constantly sending prayers, lighting candles and offering masses, I cannot be anything but positive. I thank each and every one of you for the all love, affection and prayers. I cannot tell you how many friends drop off delicious meals and desserts. Our priests offer daily masses for us, and check in regularly. Our 8 children and 18 grandchildren have been the biggest blessing to us. Even though I’m house bound, I have so much love around me. Dustin and Sharyon, who moved back home in March 2020 to help us, have been rock solid for both Heather and myself. Heather, as usual, has been my strength and unwavering support.

I hope to write an entry every couple of weeks to update friends and family on how things are going here at home. I will also reminisce about the old days, speak about my faith, and share photos from days gone by. I would love to connect with old friends and family with whom I haven’t spoken in years. Be back soon.

4 thoughts on “Life Changes

  1. Hello Yorrick, I absolutely recognize you from the community centers, 95% sure we have hit the squash ball together. Your post is incredibly brave and you brought some valuable insight and perspective for me and a few of my squash peers. Please keep sharing, stay brave and fight. Thank you for sharing these insights, praying for you ………..David Watson

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  2. Hi Bro,
    Your spirit is an inspiration to all. Your family has been a rock and the prayers of the many many friends tell of the impact you have had on hundreds of folk globally.
    Keep shining.
    We love you and you are in all our prayers. 72 years of memories from altar serving, climbing trees and playing in dad’s band to jamming on cruise ships, pilgrimages, resorts and singing in churches.
    Love 💓 you
    Edlyn with Vivienne and the family

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